Perseverance

The Quran

And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humbly submissive [to Allah ]” [Qur’an; 2:45]

“Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband’s] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance – [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.” [Qur’an; 4:34]

“And I do not acquit myself. Indeed, the soul is a persistent enjoiner of evil, except those upon which my Lord has mercy. Indeed, my Lord is Forgiving and Merciful.” [Qur’an; 12:53]

“So be patient, [O Muhammad]. Indeed, the promise of Allah is truth. And ask forgiveness for your sin and exalt [ Allah ] with praise of your Lord in the evening and the morning.” [Qur’an; 40:55]

“And that there is not for man except that [good] for which he strives. And that his effort is going to be seen – Then he will be recompensed for it with the fullest recompense.” [Qur’an: 53:39-41]

 

Hadith

Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) as saying: For one among my Ummah who shows endurance against the hardships and rigours of Medina, I would be an intercessor or a witness on his behalf on the Day of Resurrection. [Sahih Muslim]

Abu Huraira reported that Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) said: The supplication of every one of you is granted if he does not grow impatient and says: I supplicated but it was not granted. [Sahih Muslim]

Narrated Ka`b: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “The example of a believer is that of a fresh tender plant, which the wind bends lt sometimes and some other time it makes it straight. And the example of a hypocrite is that of a pine tree which keeps straight till once it is uprooted suddenly. [Sahih Bukhari]

On the authority of Abu Amr Sufyan bin Abdullah ath-Thaqafee (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, tell me something about al-Islam which I can ask of no one but you.” He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Say I believe in Allah — and then be steadfast.” [Muslim]


Overcoming idleness and engaging in hard work is an obvious key to success. For a believer, perseverance is powered by the intention to please Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He), among other motivations. This intention by itself is a powerful driving force.

One must be willing to step out of one’s comfort zone and exhaust every possible means to achieving the desired outcome, while conforming to the limits set by Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He).

Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) encouraged diligence and avoiding laziness. He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) is reported to have said, “If one of you were to carry a bundle of firewood on his back and sell it, that would be better than asking a man who may or may not give him something.” [Sunan an-Nasa’i]

Abu Huraira reported Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) as saying, “A strong believer is better and is more lovable to Allah than a weak believer, and there is good in everyone, (but) cherish that which gives you benefit (in the Hereafter) and seek help from Allah and do not lose heart, and if anything (in the form of trouble) comes to you, don’t say, ‘If I had not done that, it would not have happened so and so,’ but say, ‘Allah did that what He had ordained to do’ and your ‘if’ opens the (gate) for the Satan.” [Muslim]

Regardless of the obstacles in one’s path, and whether or not one attains what he sets out to do, the intention to please Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) through the effort is in itself a source of reward and success.

Various verses from the Qur’an convey the virtues of patience and perseverance such as being protected from the plotting of enemies, being on the path to success, earning His love, and attaining Jannah.

As mentioned in the book Purification of the Soul (link below), perseverance is a true attribute of the believer. He circles around it and then returns to it. It is the pillar that supports his faith, without which he could not remain upright. Whoever has no perseverance can have no faith, or if he does have some faith, it is scant and weak. Such a person worships Allah half-heartedly: if he encounters good in this life, he is reassured with his belief, but if he is affected by misfortune, then he turns away from Allah and loses everything both in this life and in the next life, settling for a losing deal.

The word sabr (صبر) in Arabic indicates holding back and self-restraint. When applied to daily life, it refers to restraining oneself from becoming agitated by circumstances, restraining the tongue for complaining, and restraining the hands from self-harm or tearing clothes (as a form of expressing grief).

There are two ways to complain:

  1. Complaining to Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He), which does not invalidate perseverance.
    The Prophet Yaqub (peace be upon him) said, “I only complain of my suffering and my grief to Allah…” [Qur’an, 12:86]The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Oh Allah, I complain of my weakness of strength…”
  2. Complaining about affliction by objecting to its nature and character. This contradicts with perseverance.

There are two types of impetus that drive the self. One is the active impulse of courage, and the other is the inhibiting force of restraint. The true essence of perseverance is to channel the impulse of courage towards beneficial matters and to channel the force of restraint towards avoiding what is harmful.

It is important not to confuse perseverance or firmness with stubbornness. The former is a positive trait while the latter often leads to tension amongst people. Stubbornness can be described as holding on to a point that is baseless, an argument that is wrong, a statement that is incorrect, a principle that is flawed, etc. Firmness, on the other hand, however, is when one is firm upon justice, steadfast with regard to valid principles, holds fast to what is correct, adheres to a strong sense of good values and morals etc., while still respecting others.

Further Reading

Patience

Patience and Perseverance

[Book] Purification of the Soul

Grit – Perseverance & Passion for Long-Term Goals

Getting Grit 

[Video] Grit

Sisu

Humility

The Quran

“And turn not your face away from men with pride, nor walk in insolence through the earth.  Verily, God likes not each arrogant boaster.” [Qur’an; 31:18]

“And the slaves of God are those who walk on the earth in humility and calmness, and when the foolish address them (with bad words) they reply back with mild words of gentleness.” [Qur’an; 25:63]

“Whenever We sent a prophet to a society, We took up its people in suffering and adversity, in order that they might learn humility.[Qur’an; 7:94]

 

Hadith

Abu Huraira reported Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) as saying: Charity does not in any way decrease the wealth and the servant who forgives Allah adds to his respect, and the one who shows humility Allah elevates him in the estimation (of the people). [Sahih Muslim]

Jundub reported Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) as saying: He who wants to publicise (his deeds), Allah will publicise (his humility), and he who makes a hypocritical display (of his deeds), Allah will make a display of him. [Sahih Muslim]

‘Iyad bin Himar (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said, “Verily, Allah has revealed to me that you should adopt humility. So that no one may wrong another andno one may be disdainful and haughty towards another.”
[Muslim]

It was narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “He who has, in his heart, an ant’s weight of arrogance will not enter Jannah.” Someone said: “A man likes to wear beautiful clothes and shoes?” Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Allah is Beautiful, He loves beauty. Arrogance means ridiculing and rejecting the Truth and despising people.” [Muslim]

“None shall enter the Fire (of Hell) who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of Iman and none shall enter Paradise who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of pride.” [Sahih Muslim]

When Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) was asked, ‘What did the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) do when he was with his family?’ she replied, ‘He would do chores for his family, and when it was time for the prayer, he would go out.’ [Al-Adab Al-Mufrad]

“Allah has removed the pride of Jahiliyyah from you and boasting about lineage. (A person is either) a pious believer or a miserable sinner, and the people are the children of Adam, and Adam is from dirt.” [Tirmidhi]

Sayings of the Early Muslims

“Blessed is he whose own faults keep him from seeing the faults of others.” [Ali ibn Abi Talib]


The opposite of humility is arrogance and this can stem from many factors such as wealth, knowledge, lineage, race, skin colour, language, etc. It often arises from forgetting that these attributes were apportioned to each one of us by Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He). Every day that we wake up to is a test of how we use what Allah has apportioned to us.

A common form of arrogance is that which may be termed “religious arrogance”, where a person begins to look down on others who appear to be less practising in their faith. One must remember that even the ability to practice faith is a bounty given by Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) that should cause one to be grateful rather than arrogant. At the same time, one must remember that perhaps the other person who seems less practicing, or even downright sinful, may have other saving virtues that balance his status in the sight of Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He). A sinner may repent and earn forgiveness, while an obedient person may earn Allah’s displeasure through his arrogance.

One of the hadith above uses the analogy of a mustard seed in mentioning the weight of arrogance that can prevent one from entering Paradise. The mustard seed is seemingly insignificant in size, yet the plant grows fast if the seed is not rooted out early.

Therefore a vigilant keeper of his heart must spot the insignificant seeds of arrogance that take root and take measures to remove them before they grow into a great disease. The way one responds to advice is a good indicator of the state of his heart. A heart that has been overtaken by arrogance will usually resent advice, whereas the humble heart is more receptive. This is the mechanical means of eradicating the problem.

In addition, one may resort to chemical means, i.e. the bitter medicine which kills the disease. In the case of arrogance, it’s medicine would be the remembrance of death. Remembering one’s beginning as a drop of fluid and one’s end in the soil, and one’s life in between as a carrier of waste is an effective remedy for curing arrogance, if we were to apply it.

Prevention, however, is better than cure. One must guard the garden of his heart by taking care of the soil that fills it, nourishing the thoughts that grow there, and watering them regularly so that they may grow in a healthy and beneficial manner.

In other words, one must work pro-actively to be humble and this is best achieved by following the example of the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) in his attitude with his family and other people. A person must push himself to do things that require humility, so he trains his ego and quells it.

Practising humility does not mean self-humiliation or sacrificing one’s rights all the time. A human being–especially a Muslim–must conduct himself with dignity. However, it is also true that a tree which bears fruit will lower its branches. So the more one increases in knowledge and closeness to Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He), the more he humbles himself and deals well with people. Faith and practice will produce fruit which cause you to lower your branches to meet the people.

 

Further Resources

[Video] Ego is the Enemy

[Video] Are you Arrogant? Litmust Test

Book – Purification of the Heart

Book – Purification of the Soul

Teaching

The Quran

“And He taught Adam all the names, then presented them to the angels; He said : Tell Me the names of those if you are right.” [Qur’an; 2:31]

“Who taught by the pen, Taught man what he knew not” [Qur’an: 96:4-5]

 

Hadith

Ibn Mas`ud (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Envy is permitted only in two cases: A man whom Allah gives wealth, and he disposes of it rightfully, and a man to whom Allah gives knowledge which he applies and teaches it.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

Narrated ‘Abdullah bin ‘Amr: that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Convey from me, even if it be an Ayah, and narrate from the Children of Isra’il, and there is no harm, And whoever lies upon me purposely, then let him take his seat in the Fire.” [Tirmidhi]

Sahl bin Sa’d (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to Ali (may Allah be pleased with him), “By Allah, if a single person is guided by Allah through you, it will be better for you than a whole lot of red camels.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]


In the 55th surah of the Qur’an, Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) refers to Himself as “Ar-Rahman” (the Most Compassionate, The Most Gracious) and follows it up with “Allam al-Qur’an” (He taught the Qur’an).

Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) teaches us with compassion and grace. He sent us the best of creation–the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)–to teach us how to live in this world. Our life manual–the Qur’an–begins almost every chapter with a reminder that Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) is The Most Gracious and The Most Merciful. Likewise, the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) is of the best character.

Compassion and excellent disposition are therefore the default approach to teaching and sharing knowledge. The teacher must have genuine concern for the student, even if it is only the temporary role of a teacher when we try to advice each other on good matters. The role of the doctor, in other words, is to kill the sickness and not to kill the patieint (with harshness).

One learns first to change one’s own self and only then to serve others. Happiness in seeking knowledge comes from using it to help others, rather than keeping it to one’s self.

 

Further Resources

Revival of the Religious Sciences (Ihya ulum al-din)

Education and Upbringing (Tarbiya)

Make Education Free Forever For Everyone Everywhere

[Book] Hyper-Learning – How to Adapt to the Speed of Change

Happy

The Qur’an

“Those who have believed and done righteous deeds – a good state is theirs and a good return.” [Qur’an; 13:29]

“And those who are patient, seeking the countenance of their Lord, and establish prayer and spend from what We have provided for them secretly and publicly and prevent evil with good – those will have the good consequence of [this] home – gardens of perpetual residence; they will enter them with whoever were righteous among their fathers, their spouses and their descendants. And the angels will enter upon them from every gate, [saying], “Peace be upon you for what you patiently endured. And excellent is the final home.” [Qur’an; 13:22-24]

“And as for those who had believed and done righteous deeds, they will be in a garden [of Paradise], delighted.” [Qur’an; 30:15]

 

Hadith

“Whoever makes the Hereafter his goal, Allah makes his heart rich, and organizes his affairs, and the world comes to him whether it wants to or not. And whoever makes the world his goal, Allah puts his poverty right before his eyes, and disorganizes his affairs, and the world does not come to him, except what has been decreed for him.” [Tirmidhi]

The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: ‘Whoever says when he reaches the evening: “I am pleased with Allah as (my) Lord, with Islam as (my) religion, and with Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) as (my) Prophet (Raḍītu billāhi rabban wabil-Islāmi dīnan wa bi-Muḥammadin nabiyyan) it is a duty upon Allah to please him.’” [Tirmidhi]

“Whoever among you wakes up physically healthy, feeling safe and secure within himself, with food for the day, it is as if he acquired the whole world.” [Ibn Majah]

“How wonderful is the case of a believer; there is good for him in everything and this applies only to a believer. If prosperity attends him, he expresses gratitude to Allah and that is good for him; and if adversity befalls him, he endures it patiently and that is better for him”. [Muslim]

It was narrated that Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) said, “It was said to the Messenger of Allah, ‘Which woman is best?’ He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, ‘The one who makes him happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he commands her, and she does not go against his wishes with regard to herself nor her wealth.'” [Sunan An-Nasa’i]

 

Further Reading

Happiness & Success

Solve For Happy

Friendship

The Quran

“And the believers, men and women, are protecting friends of one another, they enjoin the right and forbid the wrong” [Qur’an; 9:71]

“The believers are naught else than brothers. Therefore make peace between your brethren and observe your duty to Allah that haply ye may obtain mercy” [Qur’an; 49:10]

 

Hadith

Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah(peace be upon him) said: “A man is upon the religion of his friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends.” [Tirmidhi]

“Do not harbour grudge against one another, nor jealousy, nor enmity; and do not show your backs to one another; and become as fellow brothers and slaves of Allah. It is not lawful for a Muslim to avoid speaking with his brother beyond three days.” [Bukhari and Muslim]

Abdullah bin Amr narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Merely maintaining the ties of kinship is not adequate. But connecting the ties of kinship is when his ties to the womb are severed and he connects it.” [Tirmidhi]

Abu’d-Darda reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Shall I tell you a degree better than prayer, fasting and sadaqa?” “Yes,” they replied. He went on to say, “Improving a state of friendship. Causing discord in a state of friendship is what shaves things away.” [Al-Adab Al-Mufrad]

Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “On the Day of Resurrection, Allah, the Exalted, will say, ‘Where are those who have mutual love for the sake of My Glory? Today I shall shelter them in My Shade when there will be no shade except Mine’.” [Muslim]

Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported, “I heard Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) saying, ‘People are like gold and silver; those who were best in Jahiliyyah (Pre-Islamic Period of Ignorance) are best in Islam, if they have religious understanding; and the souls are like recruited soldiers, they get mixed up with those similar with them in qualities and oppose and drift away from those who do not share their qualities’.” [Muslim]

Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) is reported to have said, “The example of a good companion (who sits with you) in comparison with a bad one, is like that of the musk seller and the blacksmith’s bellows (or furnace); from the first you would either buy musk or enjoy its good smell while the bellows would either burn your clothes or your house, or you get a bad nasty smell thereof.” [Bukhari]

“It is not lawful for the Muslim to shun his brother for more than three (days); they come fare to fare and this one turns away, and that one turns away. The best of them is the one who initiates the salam.” [Tirmidhi]


Friendship is either out of love for Allah or out of love for the world. When a person wishes to establish a friendship, he looks for qualities he would like in a friend, qualities which will benefit him in worldly terms or religious terms.

Worldly benefits include wealth, name, etc. Religious benefits include acquiring knowledge and good deeds, saving oneself from name and fame, gaining wealth to maintain oneself, seeking help in necessary actions, getting the blessings of the invocations of a friend and hoping for the intercession of a friend in the next world.

A friend should have sound intellect and good character. He should not be a sinner or someone plainly consumed by worldly attractions. An intelligent person understands the reality of things, while a fool has no sense of right and wrong and does not understand even when he receives advice. Intelligence must be coupled with good character, because although a person may know right from wrong, he may succumb to anger or lower desires without control unless he has good character to restrain himself.

A friend should have a religious nature to benefit. There is no good in keeping the company of a sinner. He who fears Allah cannot be engaged in great sins. If a man does not fear Allah, one cannot be safe from his harms and cannot trust his words. He changes when the need arises.

وَلَا تُطِعۡ مَنۡ أَغۡفَلۡنَا قَلۡبَهُ ۥ عَن ذِكۡرِنَا وَٱتَّبَعَ هَوَٮٰهُ وَكَانَ أَمۡرُهُ ۥ فُرُطً۬ا

“…and do not obey one whose heart We have made heedless of Our remembrance and who follows his desire and whose affair is ever [in] neglect.” [Quran; 18:28]

 

وَيَوۡمَ يَعَضُّ ٱلظَّالِمُ عَلَىٰ يَدَيۡهِ يَقُولُ يَـٰلَيۡتَنِى ٱتَّخَذۡتُ مَعَ ٱلرَّسُولِ سَبِيلاً۬ (٢٧) يَـٰوَيۡلَتَىٰ لَيۡتَنِى لَمۡ أَتَّخِذۡ فُلَانًا خَلِيلاً۬ (٢٨) لَّقَدۡ أَضَلَّنِى عَنِ ٱلذِّڪۡرِ بَعۡدَ إِذۡ جَآءَنِى‌ۗ وَڪَانَ ٱلشَّيۡطَـٰنُ لِلۡإِنسَـٰنِ خَذُولاً۬

“And the Day the wrongdoer will bite on his hands [in regret] he will say, ‘Oh, I wish I had taken with the Messenger a way. Oh, woe to me! I wish I had not taken that one as a friend. He led me away from the remembrance after it had come to me. And ever is Satan, to man, a deserter’.” [Quran; 25:27-29]

 

ٱلۡأَخِلَّآءُ يَوۡمَٮِٕذِۭ بَعۡضُهُمۡ لِبَعۡضٍ عَدُوٌّ إِلَّا ٱلۡمُتَّقِينَ

“Close friends, that Day, will be enemies to each other, except for the righteous” [Quran; 43:67]

As mentioned in the first hadith above, a person’s religion can be influenced by the company he keeps. Contemporary wisdom also declares that, “You are the average of the five people you associate with the most.” Therefore choosing friends is a matter of choosing between success and failure in this life and in the next.

The duties of being a good friend include being a source of assistance in times of need, be it through spiritual, emotional, physical or financial support. The Arabic language has different terms for different types of friends.

 

Qareen

قَالَ قَآٮِٕلٌ۬ مِّنۡہُمۡ إِنِّى كَانَ لِى قَرِينٌ۬

“A speaker among them will say, “Indeed, I had a companion [on earth]” [Quran; 37:51]

A qareen is a companion who is so close that they are always with you. They have a great influence over you because of the closeness of the relationship. So perhaps one might want to make spiritual improvements, but finds his qareen in the way–reminding him and influencing him towards a previous questionable lifestyle. A person’s qareen may even be from the demonic world (shayateen) as a result of walking away from the remembrance of Allah.

 

Khazhool

A khazhool portrays the nature of a loyal friend until the situation arises when their loyalty is put to the test and then their lack of sincerity in the friendship becomes known. The Quran uses this term for Satan. He draws people to evil by pretending to offer good and being a loyal friend. He offers immediate gratification which can be more appealing than waiting for good and pure things. A khazhool draws his friend to succumb to lower temptations.

 

Sadeeq

This word comes from the Arabic word sidq which means truthfulness. A sadeeq, therefore, is a genuine friend who has no agenda or intention of making use of you to further his own worldly interests. The friendship is based on who one really is, rather than what one has or how well one is doing well in life. A sadeeq is present through ups and downs and is willing to endure difficult times to look out for his friend’s well-being. In keeping with the nature of truthfulness, a sadeeq speaks up when his friend is veering off the path and needs a reminder or a wake up call, even if it may be difficult to do so. This is in contrast to a fake friend who may not show concern to provide reminders or correction when needed.

 

Rafeeq

This comes from the Arabic word mirfaq which is something to recline on, such as a pillow. Thus a rafeeq is the kind of friend one can count on and turn to in times of need. A rafeeq‘s advice is a source of genuine comfort (as opposed to deceiving comfort). A rafeeq might even be someone much older than one’s self, so that one can lean on them for wisdom and sound advice during times of need.

 

Wali

A wali is a protective friend who watches out for harm. A believer’s first protective friend is Allah, and then His messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). Pious believers who abide by Divine law by praying consistently, paying their zakah, and are in a state of bowing (i.e. humble) can also be wali.

One way to measure the quality of a friend is to observe the impact they have on one’s life. A friend worth having will often influence one to be better rather than to engage in questionable activities. So in choosing a friend, it is recommended that one looks for those who are better and can be a source of positive influence.

 

Khalil

This is an intimate friend who is perhaps as close as a sibling, so much so that a person’s joy and sorrow are equally felt by his khalil. Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) mentions in the Qur’an that He took Ibrahim (may Allah be pleased with him) as a khalil. Ibrahim (may Allah be pleased with him) was by himself in many situations of his life and his only Friend was Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He). Thus he found intimate friendship with Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He).

 

Hameem

This is the type of friend who acts close regardless of whether or not he actually is close. He demonstrates his closeness through actions such as generosity, kindness, and support in times of need. While a khalil is based in the heart, a hameem is based on action.

 

Waleejah

This is a friend who gets involved and assists one in business or personal matters. A waleejah should only be a Muslim in order to be allowed into one’s private matters and secrets to that extent.

 

Further Information

Lecture: The Importance of Company; Nouman Ali Khan

 

Purification of the Soul (P.T.S.)

وَنَفۡسٍ۬ وَمَا سَوَّٮٰهَا / فَأَلۡهَمَهَا فُجُورَهَا وَتَقۡوَٮٰهَا / قَدۡ أَفۡلَحَ مَن زَكَّٮٰهَا / وَقَدۡ خَابَ مَن دَسَّٮٰهَا

“And [by] the soul and He who proportioned it. And inspired it [with discernment of] its wickedness and its righteousness. He has succeeded who purifies it. And he has failed who instills it [with corruption].”
[Qur’an; 91:7-10]

Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, “I was sent to perfect good character.” [Adab al-Mufrad]

With regard to the soul, there are two types of people. One type has subdued their nafs (desires of the self)  so that they are in command of it. The other type have been overcome by their nafs so that they are no longer in control of it and have to succumb to its will.

Scholars comment that the fundamental purpose of divine revelation is for “correcting” the soul and guiding it towards its purpose. It is apparent from the above verses and hadith that Islam places great emphasis on the state of the human soul and the importance of purifying it for success.

Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) commands us to have restraint over the nafs rather than giving in to every impulse. The nafs, on the other hand, is constantly urging one towards fulfilling various desires or engaging in vices.

Thus purification of the soul is a life-long processed tied to tarbiya. and is a vast topic to address. Much has been written and spoken about it. In learning about this process, there are some key terms to be familiar with.

Hawa: the inclination of one’s nature to what suits it. Hawa should not be criticized when what is sought after is lawful, unless one is excessive. Man is blessed with intellect to restrain himself and make beneficial choices. There will be times when one’s hawa must be contradicted and controlled as succumbing to hawa at all times can lead to harm and humiliation.

Ishq: this refers to passionate love that, if unbridled, can lead to harm and humiliation too. A reason for ishq turning harmful is failure to avert one’s gaze from what one has been commanded to be wary of. Once signs of ishq appear, it is important to weed it out as early as possible, as the further it takes root, the more difficult it becomes to eliminate. It can corrupt the soul and desensitize the heart to sin.

Sharah: in the general sense, this refers to appeasing one’s hawa for food, sexual pleasure, wealth, and extravagant living. Sharah is not only harmful to the body but also to one’s character, whereas restraining appetite helps one physically as well as spiritually.

All of the above are addressed through the Islamic prescription for fasting–the obligatory fasting during the month of Ramadan as well as the other fasts that are encouraged throughout the year.

The Qur’an mentions three types of souls–the self at peace, the reproachful self, and the self that commands evil, although there are different views among people about whether this refers to three separate selves or essentially one self with three qualities.

There are two types of impetus that drive the self. One is the active impulse of courage, and the other is the inhibiting force of restraint. Some people are able to channel their perseverance into regular night prayers or fasting, but are weak in controlling their gaze. On the contrary, there are those who have near-perfect restraint with avoiding vices, but lack the impetus to persevere in consistent good deeds.

Some Steps to Keep the Soul in Check

  • Avoiding positions of leadership and authority that can lead to a sense of superiority over others and a temptation to incline towards corruption and malpractice
  • Giving generously out of what one loves for himself, thus training the soul to avert stinginess and acknowledging that Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) is the Giver of all that one possesses
  • Avoiding wastefulness and extravagance
  • Avoiding prohibitions of the tongue, such as lying and backbiting
  • Avoiding prohibitions of the heart, such as envy, anger, and arrogance
  • Avoiding riya–the inclination to show off or attract attention of others in the hope of receiving praise, thereby corrupting the intention behind deeds which must be done purely for the sake of Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He)

The Etiquette of Disobedience

Disobedience is to be avoided, but in the event that one falls into it unwillingly, Islam still provides a code of conduct that one must adhere to.

  • Never take intentional steps to approach the sin, but when the sin occurs, do not blame anyone but yourself.
  • Do not consider any sin as a minor matter. Do not consider how small the sin is, but rather consider the greatness of The One you have sinned against. “The believer sees his sins as if he was at the base of a mountain, fearing that it was about to fall upon him. The wicked person sees his sins as if (they are) flies are hitting his nose…” [Tirmidhi]
  • Keep the sin private and do not commit it in public. Being lax about the sin and committing it in public indicates that one does not care about Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) and does not have shyness. This etiquette is also for preserving society by not promoting the sin or desensitizing people to it.
  • Do not feel safe from the punishment of Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He). Punishment may arrive in various forms of suffering even if one does not realize the connection of that suffering with the sin.
  • Do not publicize the sin. “All the people of my Ummah would get pardon for their sins except those who publicize them. And (it means) that a servant should do a deed during the night and tell the people in the morning that he has done so and so, whereas Allah has concealed it. And he does a deed during the day and when it is night he tells the people, whereas Allah has concealed it.” [Sahih Muslim]
  • Do not take pride in your disobedience.
  • Strive to desist from the disobedience and leave it completely. Do not allow it to become a habit or obsession.
  • Feel remorse for one’s disobedience and seek forgiveness.
  • Repent to Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) and make a firm decision not to engage in the sin again. If the sin is connected to the rights of others, then one has to restore those rights in addition to repentance.
  • Avoid being influenced into disobedience by avoiding its triggers (certain people, places, times, devices, etc.).
  • Perform a good deed to wipe out the evil deed.
  • Upon leaving the disobedience, strive to discourage others from that same disobedience.

Further Information

Book: Disciplining the Soul; Ibn Al-Jawzi

Book: Purification of the Soul

Wisdom

The Quran

“He grants Hikmah(wisdom) to whom He pleases, and he, to whom Hikma(wisdom) h is granted, is indeed granted abundant good. But none remember (will receive admonition) except men of understanding.” [Qur’an; 2:269]

“And I taught you the ‘Ketab’ (Scripture) and ‘Al-Hekmah’(wisdom).” [Qur’an; 5-110]

“Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction, and argue with them in a way that is best. Indeed, your Lord is most knowing of who has strayed from His way, and He is most knowing of who is [rightly] guided.” [Qur’an; 16:125]

Hadith

Shaddad bin Aus (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “A wise man is the one who calls himself to account (and refrains from doing evil deeds) and does noble deeds to benefit him after death; and the foolish person is the one who subdues himself to his temptations and desires and seeks from Allah the fulfillment of his vain desires”. [At-Tirmidhi]

“When Allah wishes good for someone, He bestows upon him the understanding of Deen.” [Bukhari and Muslim]

It was narrated from ‘Abdullah bin Mas’ud that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: “There is no (permissible) envy except in two cases: A man whom Allah has given wealth and caused him to dispose of it in a proper manner, and a man to whom Allah has given wisdom, and he acts in accordance with it and teaches it (to others).” [Ibn Majah]

“Do not wish to be like anyone except in two cases. (The first is) A person, whom Allah has given wealth and he spends it righteously; (the second is) the one whom Allah has given wisdom (the Holy Qur’an) and he acts according to it and teaches it to others.” [Bukhari]

“The wise statement is the lost property of the believer, so wherever he finds it, then he is more worthy of it.” [Tirmidhi]


The Arabic word for wisdom is hikmah. A person may possess ilm (knowledge) but be bereft of hikmah. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was unlettered, yet he was bestowed with immense wisdom.

Wisdom is insight as well as foresight. It is the ability to see beyond the apparent and to act intelligently according to person, place, and time. Wisdom develops with maturity and experience, although it is not directly related to age. Its definition includes:

  • the ability to make correct judgments and decisions
  • as foreseeing consequences and acting to maximize beneficial results
  • making the best use of available knowledge
  • thinking what is best and doing what is best in any given situation

One must weigh the costs and benefits to any course of action. Rightly-guided education is a must for implementing this beautiful religion. Without this education, one might believe he is doing good when he is actually generating harm.

Shari’ah can be divided into two types of discourse. The discourse of obligation (khitab-ut-takleef) refers to responsibilities which are sometimes on the individual, sometimes collective, sometimes for the ruler, and sometimes for the general population. The discourse of circumstance (khitab-ul-wada’) refers to the circumstances which make the rulings binding on an individual or group. Scholars and leaders must take this into account when guiding the masses. Every command from Allah has conditions, causes, and constraints. Laws may have to be redacted or introduced according to circumstances and this is to be done in consultation with the learned and the wise.

For instance, in one of the episodes of our history, we see that the penal code for theft was not implemented during the time of famine, because there was an understanding regarding the circumstances of people. Similarly, when people started trading in horses, a zakat on horses was introduced, although there was no zakat due on horses in previous times.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) himself showed us that concepts can change. For instance, after the victory of Makkah (fathhul Makkah) it was said there would be no hijra (migration) after that. However, the definition of a muhajir would still exist in that it referred to someone who migrated from bad actions to good. The concept changed from something physical to something spiritual.

In the words of Ibn Al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) [1]:

Reflect on the wisdom of the Almighty Allah in His creation and commandment, in what He created and in what He decreed; and you will discover in all that a great source of wisdom that speaks of a foolproof system that never fails, nor does it have any loophole.

Some people perceive the wisdom of commandment more than they notice the wisdom of creation – these are the select among Allah’s servants, who have well comprehended what Allah ordained of injunctions and religion, and realised His wisdom in what He excelled in designing. Their minds and intellect testify that the basis of what they see is deep wisdom, mercy and benefit for the humans in their worldly and hereafter lives. This class of people, however, are of countless levels that only Allah can reckon.

Some humans notice the wisdom of creation more than they notice the wisdom of injunctions, and of this class are the majority of physicians who dedicate their thought to the extraction of the benefits and uses of animals and plants, their potentials and what they can serve, individually and in combinations. Their share in perceiving the wisdom of commandment is equal to or less than the jurist’s share in perceiving the wisdom of creation.

Another class are blessed with noticing creation and commandment in accordance with their potential and ability: They notice in what they see the exceeding wisdom that overwhelms minds; and as they observe creation and the many aspects of wisdom it implies, they increase in faith, knowledge, and endorsement of what the messengers taught. When they consider His commandments and the exceeding wisdom they imply, their faith and submission to the Lord are increased. They are not like those who have been blinded to the Maker by what He made, or blinded by the stars from realising the Star-Maker; those whose vision is blinded, who are barred from the Lord with a thick veil.

Though knowledge (ilm) may open the doorways to wisdom (hikmah), the two are distinct. Knowledge and information provide the means for enlightenment. A man may have amassed a lot of knowledge yet remain lacking in wisdom.

Though book knowledge enhances the potential for wisdom, wisdom is often attained by learning in other ways, especially by reflecting on that knowledge and applying it.

“The saddest aspect of life right now is that science gathers knowledge faster than society gathers wisdom.” – [Isaac Asimov’s Book of Science and Nature Quotations, 1988]

Muslims are instructed to ask the learned, consult with the wise, and to accompany the poor.

 

Further Information

Luqman the Wise

Wisdom on Turning to God from the Islamic Tradition

 

Footnotes

[1] [Book] Men and the Universe

Knowledge

The Quran

“And so those who were given knowledge may know that it is the truth from your Lord and [therefore] believe in it, and their hearts humbly submit to it. And indeed is Allah the Guide of those who have believed to a straight path.” [Qur’an; 22:54]

“So high [above all] is Allah , the Sovereign, the Truth. And, [O Muhammad], do not hasten with [recitation of] the Qur’an before its revelation is completed to you, and say, “My Lord, increase me in knowledge.”” [Qur’an; 20:114]

“…Are those who know equal to those who do not know?…” [Qur’an; 39:9]

“…Only those fear Allah, from among His servants, who have knowledge…” [Qur’an; 35:28]

Hadith

Narrated Anas bin Malik: that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Whoever goes out seeking knowledge, then he is in Allah’s cause until he returns.” [Jami at-Tirmidi]

Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to say, “O Allah! Grant me benefit in what you have taught me, and teach me useful knowledge and provide me with knowledge that will benefit me.” [Nasa’i and Al-Hakim]

Ibn ‘Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) reported:
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Envy is justified in regard to two types of persons only: a man whom Allah has given knowledge of the Qur’an, and so he recites it during the night and during the day; and a man whom Allah has given wealth and so he spends from it during the night and during the day.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

“If anyone travels on a road in search of knowledge, Allah will cause him to travel on one of the roads of Paradise. The angels will lower their wings in their great pleasure with one who seeks knowledge, the inhabitants of the heavens and the Earth and the fish in the deep waters will ask forgiveness for the learned man. The superiority of the learned man over the devout is like that of the moon, on the night when it is full, over the rest of the stars.” [Abu Dawud]

“And whoever follows a path to seek knowledge therein, Allah will make easy for him a path to Paradise. No people gather together in one of the Houses of Allah, reciting the Book of Allah and studying it among themselves, except that sakeenah (tranquility) descends upon them, and mercy envelops them, and the angels surround them.” [40 Hadith Nawawi]

“For whomever Allah wants good, he gives him understanding in the religion.” [Tirmidhi]

“He who follows a path in quest of knowledge, Allah will make the path of Jannah easy to him. The angels lower their wings over the seeker of knowledge, being pleased with what he does. The inhabitants of the heavens and the earth and even the fish in the depth of the oceans seek forgiveness for him. The superiority of the learned man over the devout worshipper is like that of the full moon to the rest of the stars (i.e., in brightness). The learned are the heirs of the Prophets who bequeath neither dinar nor dirham but only that of knowledge; and he who acquires it, has in fact acquired an abundant portion.” [Abu Dawud and At- Tirmidhi]

“Ask Allah for beneficial knowledge and seek refuge with Allah from knowledge that is of no benefit.” [Sunan Ibn Majah]

“This world is cursed and what is in it is cursed, except the remembrance of Allah (dhikr) and what is conducive to that, or one who has knowledge or who acquires knowledge.” [Sunan Ibn Majah]

It is reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “May Allah beautify a man who hears a saying of mine, so he understands it, remembers it, and conveys it. Perhaps he carries the Fiqh to one who has more understanding than him. There are three with which the heart of a Muslim shall not be deceived. Sincerity in deeds for Allah, giving nasihah to the a’immah of Muslims, and sticking to the jama’ah. For indeed the call is protected from behind them.” [Tirmidhi]

Sayings of the Companions and Early Scholars

“The rank of the learned is seven hundred times more than that of the believers, and between the two ranks is the distance of five hundred years’ journey.” [Ibn Abbas]

“The ink of the learned will be weighed against the blood of the martyrs and will be found to be heavier than the blood of martyrs.” [Hasan al-Basri]

“Discussing knowledge for a portion of the night is dearer to me than spending the night in prayer.” [Ibn Abbas]

“Acquire knowledge because its acquisition is fear of Allah, its pursuit is worship, its study is praise, seeking it is jihad, teaching it to him who does not know is charity and imparting it to those who are worthy is meritorious. It is the travel companion, the companion in solitude, the guide to religion, the comforter in happiness and misfortune, the close friend of a stranger and beacon to the path of Paradise. Through it Allah exalts a nation and makes them leaders and guides of good. Seeing them, others also become guides to good, and people follow them. The angels urge them to work. Everything, dry and fresh, seeks forgiveness for them. Even the fish and vermin of the sea, the beasts and cattle of the land, and the sky and its stars seek forgiveness for them. Knowledge gives life to dead hearts, is the light of the eyes in darkness and gives strength to bodies after removing weakness. By it a man reaches the rank of the pious. Thinking of it is like fasting, and studying it is like prayer. By it Allah is obeyed and worshipped, warning is given, the unity of Allah is understood, blood ties are maintained and lawful and unlawful things are known.” [Muadh ibn Jabal]


 

Knowledge is precious and sought after because it is an avenue to earning success in this world and the next. It is the means for avoiding harm and seeking good. It is the root by which one is able to earn the fruit of the pleasure of Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He).

Knowledge heals and governs the heart and soul. It is necessary to basically know the right and the wrong, their implications, and the significance of ‘the right’ and degradation of ‘the wrong’.

Some knowledge is personally obligatory on all Muslims (fard ayn), such as the fundamental beliefs. Some of the fard ayn knowledge is obligatory for Muslims in particular situations, such knowledge of how to perform Hajj for someone who intends to set out on Hajj. Some knowledge is obligatory on some of the community (fard kifaya), such as knowing the theoretical rulings regarding the recitation of Qur’an (the science of Tajweed) or even knowledge of medicine. There is also knowledge that is offensive to seek, such as learning about sorcery or astrology.

It was narrated from Umm Salamah that when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) performed the Subh (morning prayer), while he said the salam, he would say:

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ عِلْمًا نَافِعًا وَرِزْقًا طَيِّبًا وَعَمَلاً مُتَقَبَّلاً

‘Allahumma inni as’aluka ‘ilman nafi’an, wa rizqan tayyiban, wa ‘amalan mutaqabbalan (O Allah, I ask You for beneficial knowledge, goodly provision and acceptable deeds).’” [Sunan Ibn Majah]

Knowledge is to be pursued from cradle to grave. One never stops learning if he intends to be successful in both worlds. Yet it must be sought purely for the sake of Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) rather than for rank or fame.

The Arabic word for knowledge is ilm. This word is more commonly used to refer to the knowledge relating to the religion of Allah.

As Ibn Al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) says [1]:

Reflect on the wisdom of the Gentle, the Omniscient, when he endowed man with such knowledge as he may need for optimal life in this world and in the hereafter; while He withheld from man knowledge that he does not need, and which there is no harm in missing. He greatly facilitated the means of acquiring the required knowledge; the more that was required, the more did He facilitate its acquisition. He bestowed on man knowledge of and recognition of his Creator, Maker, Originator,  the Almighty Lord – the way to such knowledge has been greatly smoothed. There is nothing in the branches of knowledge that compares with this in importance nor with its obviousness to the mind and innate nature; no branch of knowledge has as many ways and proofs as this knowledge, nothing is equal in obviousness and clarity – all that your eye sees, all that your ear hears, all that your mind thinks of, all that occurs to you, and all that any of your senses perceive, is a proof of the Lord.

He also says[2]:

Knowledge is to transfer the image of a given thing and establish it in the heart. And action is to transfer the theoretical image from the heart and establish it in the world. Therefore if one, which is established in the heart corresponds to the reality, then it is true knowledge.

It is often true that some images that have no real existence remain within oneself, and the person who has adopted it in himself takes it to be true knowledge, whereas it has no reality. The knowledge of most people is of this kind.

There are two kinds that conform with reality: the first one is used to accomplish the perfection of the self by understanding and knowing it, and that is done through knowing Allah, His Names, Attributes, Actions, Books, Commands and what He has forbidden.

The second one cannot make us perfect, and that is the knowledge that is not important, and therefore does not benefit when it is learned. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to seek refuge with Allah from the knowledge that is not beneficial. And this is the case with most good knowledge, such as astronomy, its stages, the number of its stars, its quantities, and the knowledge of the number of mountains, their colour, their measurements, and so on.

Therefore the honour of knowledge depends on its content and the level of its necessity, and surely that is nothing else except knowing Allah and everything related to Him.

The flaw of knowledge is when it is not in conformity with Allah’s will, what He loves and which pleases Him. That is when knowledge becomes corrupted. The corruption of knowledge occurs when people believe that something is lawful and pleases Allah, but in reality is not the case, or to believe that it makes the person becomes closer to Allah even if it does not.

The corruption of one’s intention is when deeds are not done for the sake of Allah and the Hereafter, but done for the sake of this worldly life. There is no way to be safe from these two flaws concerning knowledge and deeds, except by learning that which the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) brought from Allah the Almighty concerning knowledge, learning, seeking Allah’s Countenance and the Hereafter along with the subject of intention and will. Furthermore, faith and certainty bring about beneficial knowledge and good will, and both of them cause faith and increase it. Hence it becomes clear that the deviation of the majority of people from faith is due to their deviation from beneficial knowledge and good will. And faith cannot be completed unless it is learnt from the light of Prophethood, by cleansing the will from blemishes of vain desires and the will of the man.

His knowledge would then be adopted from the light of inspiration, his seeking of Allah’s Countenance and the Hereafter. Therefore this would be the best person in terms of knowledge and action, and he would be among the leaders who give guidance under Allah’s Command and among the successors of His Messenger in his nation.

The religious scholars who prefer and love this worldly life shall surely speak other than the truth concerning their judgments and religious verdicts. Verily the judgments of Allah usually contradict the desires of people, especially the rulers and those who follow their whims, as their aims cannot be attained except by opposing the truth.

Accordingly if the ruler and religious scholar seek position and power and follow their desires, indeed they will not be able to fulfill their aims except by deviating from the truth, especially if there is doubtful matter involved. The doubtful matter will agree with the desires of man, and vanity will prevail. As a result, righteousness will disappear, and truth will vanish.

 

A Brief Reflection on the First Five Verses of Surah Al-Alaq

اقْرَأْ بِاسْمِ رَبِّكَ الَّذِي خَلَقَ ﴿١﴾ خَلَقَ الْإِنسَانَ مِنْ عَلَقٍ ﴿٢﴾ اقْرَأْ وَرَبُّكَ الْأَكْرَمُ ﴿٣﴾ الَّذِي عَلَّمَ بِالْقَلَمِ ﴿٤﴾ عَلَّمَ الْإِنسَانَ مَا لَمْ يَعْلَمْ ﴿٥﴾

“Read! In the name of your Lord, Who created. He created man from a clinging substance. Read! and your Lord is the Most Generous. He Who taught by the Pen. He taught man what he did not know.” [Qur’an; 96:1-5]

The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was sent many centuries after Prophet Isa (peace be upon him) at a time when there was no other prophet or messenger. One might assume that the first message to be conveyed would be regarding avoiding polytheism, worshipping Allah alone, and to leave sin and corruption. Although these things are emphasized in Islam, the first message that came down was that of reading. Education is the key to all reform and development.

Read in the Name of your Lord, who created“: Reading and seeking knowledge (ilm) can be effective only if it is in the name of Allah (ism). When ilm is linked with ism, it leads to truth and righteousness. If, however, ilm is only for the sake of the ilm itself or for seeking employment or influence, then it can lead to harm. When we read in the name of Allah, we acknowledge that He is the source of all knowledge and that everything we have and gain is from Him. We ought to learn with devotion to Him and with pure intentions.

He created man from a clinging substance.“: Through knowledge we get to know of our humble beginnings and how all our faculties, senses, and abilities were bestowed on us by Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He). The more knowledge we acquire, the more humble we ought to become.

Read! and your Lord is the Most Generous.“: The word “Al-Akram” is the superlative of the word “Kareem” which means noble, generous, and kind. We ought to read and become most grateful to our Lord’s kindness and generosity. Our education should make us noble people, not wicked people. True knowledge generates goodness and nobility.

“He Who taught by the Pen.”: The pen is a great gift of Allah to the human being. The pen is used to convey and acquire knowledge. Use the pen, but with the constant recognition that it is a gift from Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) and ought to be used with care. It must be treated as a trust from Allah in human hands.

He taught man what he did not know.“: Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) has taught us what we did not know and could never have known without Him informing us.

These are basic principles of Islamic theory and methodology of education. Islam emphasizes the knowledge that leads to faith and good character. This knowledge is called “al-ilm an-nafi'”; it is to learn the good things in order to benefit from them and also to be aware of the harmful things in order to avoid them. Knowing the good things but not practising them or knowing the bad and not refraining from them means the person does not posses “al-ilm an-nafi'”.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) is reported to have said, “Ask Allah for beneficial knowledge and seek refuge with Allah from knowledge that is of no benefit.” [Ibn Majah]

He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) taught us to supplicate:

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ عِلْمٍ لاَ يَنْفَعُ وَقَلْبٍ لاَ يَخْشَعُ وَدُعَاءٍ لاَ يُسْمَعُ وَنَفْسٍ لاَ تَشْبَعُ .اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ هَؤُلاَءِ الأَرْبَعِ

“O Allah, I seek refuge with You from knowledge that is of no benefit, a heart that is not humble, a supplication that is not heard and a soul that is not satisfied. O Allah, I seek refuge with You from these four.” [Sunan An-Nasa’i]

Today we find an explosion of knowledge and an overload of information, yet a lack of connection with The Creator, Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He). It has become more difficult to discriminate between right and wrong, truth and falsehood, virtue and vice.

Therefore it is important to revive the Islamic methodology of combining ilm with ism, using knowledge to draw closer to Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) in order to derive true benefit for ourselves and our communities.

 

Further Reading & Information

Revival of the Religious Sciences (Ihya ulum al-din)

Beneficial Knowledge

Seek Knowledge in China – Dr. Umar Faruq Abd-Allah

Specialization of Knowledge – Ibn Hazm

Beautiful Hadiths on Seeking Knowledge

How do we define beneficial knowledge?

Audio: Knowledge, Devotion & Service

To What Extent is Islam Concerned with Knowledge?

Is it Permissible to Study Astrology?

Aramco World Magazine | AramcoWorld App

[Video] Reflections – Sami Yusuf & Dr. Umar Faruq Abd-Allah

[Video] What is Beneficial Knowledge in Islam? – Dr. Umar Faruq Abd-Allah

The Islamic Era and Its Importance to Knowledge and the Development of Libraries

 

Resources

Coursera

Codecademy

Khan Academy

Girls Who Code

Gates Notes

Four Minute Books

Blinkist

StoryShots

Minerva

Kahoot

Pocket App

MIT – J-WEL

Udemy

Udacity

Singularity University

MBZ University of AI

 

Footnotes

[1] [Book] Men and the Universe

[2] Al-Fawa’id: A collection of wise sayings

[3] [Book] Knowledge And The Sacred

Education and Upbringing (Tarbiya)

Definition

A Muslim is one who submits himself to the Will of Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He). Therefore being a Muslim not only involves maintaining faith (iman) in the heart, and knowledge (ilm) in the mind. It also involves struggle and striving to live a life in this world that will earn the pleasure of Allah and success in the next world.

This ability to strive and survive in this world that is designed to test us has to be developed through an Islamic moral education and training in sound principles and correct responses. This is the process of tarbiya.

Tarbiya is an Arabic word that means development, increase, growth, and loftiness. In Islam it means the development and the training of people in various aspects, especially the discipline and training of the soul. As the saying attributed to Aristotle goes, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit.”

مَثَلُ ٱلَّذِينَ حُمِّلُوا۟ ٱلتَّوْرَىٰةَ ثُمَّ لَمْ يَحْمِلُوهَا كَمَثَلِ ٱلْحِمَارِ يَحْمِلُ أَسْفَارًۢا ۚ بِئْسَ مَثَلُ ٱلْقَوْمِ ٱلَّذِينَ كَذَّبُوا۟ بِـَٔايَـٰتِ ٱللَّـهِ ۚ وَٱللَّـهُ لَا يَهْدِى ٱلْقَوْمَ ٱلظَّـٰلِمِينَ ﴿٥﴾

“The example of those who were entrusted with the Torah and then did not take it on is like that of a donkey who carries volumes [of books]. Wretched is the example of the people who deny the signs of Allah . And Allah does not guide the wrongdoing people.” [Qur’an; 62:5]

Application of Tarbiya

Tarbiya is more than just education or parenting. It is more than just the acquisition of knowledge regarding right and wrong. Although the crucial seeds of tarbiya are best planted in early childhood, it is in fact a lifelong process of continuous development of character and moral values. It is a process of implementation rather than merely acquiring information.

وَٱلَّذِينَ جَـٰهَدُواْ فِينَا لَنَہۡدِيَنَّہُمۡ سُبُلَنَا‌ۚ وَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ لَمَعَ ٱلۡمُحۡسِنِينَ

“And those who strive for Us – We will surely guide them to Our ways. And indeed, Allah is with the doers of good.” [Qur’an; 29:69]

Acting upon what one already knows will lead the way to more knowledge and guidance. Growth and self-development occur by constantly putting into practice the information that has been acquired; by applying theory to practical life.

Tarbiya occurs at the individual level as well as community level. At individual level it can be termed as introspection and self-development. Tarbiya at community level enables individuals to reach for growth that cannot be attained independently and involves receiving feedback and advice from external sources.

The process requires humility and acknowledgement of one’s weaknesses and flaws, as well as a willingness to learn and improve. There is a connection between the word for guidance (hidayah) and a gift (hadiya) in the Arabic language. In other words, there must be appreciation for a higher level of being and an eagerness to embrace the gift if one is to be given. It requires repentance and the desire to become better everyday, for it is natural for man to sin, but those who are sincere about getting close to Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He) are frequent to seek forgiveness and evaluate themselves.

Parents bear the responsibility for providing sound tarbiya in early childhood.

يَـٰٓأَيُّہَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُواْ قُوٓاْ أَنفُسَكُمۡ وَأَهۡلِيكُمۡ نَارً۬ا وَقُودُهَا ٱلنَّاسُ وَٱلۡحِجَارَةُ

“…O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones…” [Qur’an; 66:6]

The fruits of their effort will be seen not only in this world when the parents become dependent on the children, but also after they pass away.

Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “When a man dies, his deeds come to an end except for three things:

  1. sadaqah jariyah (ceaseless charity)
  2. a knowledge which is beneficial, or
  3. a virtuous descendant who prays for him (for the deceased).” [Muslim]

Setting the right environment and example and providing proper tarbiya, however, requires that the parents themselves are regularly engaged in tarbiya themselves.

Good Teachers and Companions

As with all cases, the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has set the best example for us on how to develop individuals and communities to maximise their human potential and bring out the best. He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was able to inspire, lead, and change the entire community from a lifestyle of ignorance (jahiliyya) to the lifestyle of a model community. At the same time, he influenced people with a personal touch, addressing them and advising them specifically according to their circumstances.

Therefore even in present times, it is important to find teachers who possess deep understanding of the religious teachings as well as its practical application to guide our tarbiya. Knowledge and tarbiya go hand in hand. Knowledge without tarbiya can lead to chaos and tarbiya without proper knowledge cannot exist. Satan, for instance, possesses a great deal of knowledge, yet he is accursed.

A suitable teacher is one who can not only inspire to higher ideals but can also translate those aspirations into everyday guidance, who can understand the context of the people they are leading, and thus be relevant. A good teacher has the wisdom to push the student out of his comfort zone but without breaking him, so that the student may realise his own undiscovered potential.

It is narrated that Ibn Umm Maktum asked the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), “Messenger of Allah, I am a blind man, my house is far away (from the mosque), and I have a guide who does not follow me. Is it possible that permission be granted to me for saying prayer in my house?” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked, “Do you hear summons (adhan)?” He said, “Yes.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “I do not find any permission for you.” [Abu Dawud]

In addition to good teachers, one also needs to be surrounded by good friends who help persevere, who provide the right influence and companionship especially at difficult times, who are themselves committed to high ideals and are willing to provide and receive feedback on the journey to becoming better every day.

 

Further Reading

Knowledge

Guidelines for Parents

Al-Ghazali on Disciplining the Soul

Book:  Parent-Child RelationsIIIT | AEMS | TFI

How can the ordinary Muslim know who the scholars are?

[Video] Words of Wisdom – The Purpose of Education in Islam

40 Hadiths on Parenting: A Prophetic Guide to Raising Righteous Muslim Children

Keys to Raising Righteous Children: Eight Lessons on Successful Parenting

Muslim Heritage

Journal of Islam and Science

Productive Muslim | Barakah Academy

Ibn Hazm’s Philosophy and Thoughts on Science

Make Education Free Forever For Everyone Everywhere

Center for Islamic Sciences (CIS)

Second Golden Age

Amin Toufani | Adaptive Intelligence: Hacking Your Brain’s Response to Change

Moonshots in Education – Esther Wojcicki

Beenova AI | Jos Dirkx

Singularity University

Dr. Nicole Wilson: 3 Ways Exponential Technologies Are Impacting the Future of Learning

Free Education

Resources

University Of The People – The Education Revolution – Free Online University

MIT – J-WEL

Kahoot

KNOW

FEIISP

Udacity

Knewton

Minerva

Udemy

Synthesis – Where Kids Become Problem Solvers

MBZ University For Humanities

Singularity University

MBZ University of AI

Aramco World Magazine | AramcoWorld App

International Educator | NAFSA

University of al-Qarawiyyin | Fatima al-Fihri

Sankore Madrasah | Mansa Musa

Success Through Forgiveness

The act of seeking forgiveness is known as istighfar. It is usually done by saying, “Astaghfirullah” or “Astaghfirullah Al-Adheem“. There are various other forms of istighfar taught to us by the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) as well and some of these are mentioned below.
Seeking forgiveness is meant to be a frequent action in the life of a Muslim, because as we learn from the Qur’an and hadith:

وَمَن يَعْمَلْ سُوءًا أَوْ يَظْلِمْ نَفْسَهُ ثُمَّ يَسْتَغْفِرِ اللَّـهَ يَجِدِ اللَّـهَ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا ﴿١١٠﴾

“And whoever does a wrong or wrongs himself but then seeks forgiveness of Allah will find Allah Forgiving and Merciful.”
[Qur’an; 4:110]

“Every son of Adam commits sin, and the best of those who commit sin are those who repent.” [Sunan ibn Majah]

To sin, therefore, is human. To seek forgiveness for sins is an act of those who want to strive for a clean record with Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He).

Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “By the One in Whose Hand my soul is, were you not to commit sins, Allah would replace you with a people who would commit sins and then seek forgiveness from Allah; and Allah would forgive them”. [Muslim]

Seeking forgiveness goes hand in hand with repentance, where the former is verbal and the latter involves the heart and body.

Benefits of Seeking Forgiveness

Istighfar is also one of the most virtuous deeds to involve one’s heart and tongue in. As sins pile up, they block the acceptance of our supplications. Istighfar, on the other hand, helps clear away the sins and open the doors to success.

“He who seeks forgiveness has not been persistent in sin, even if he does it seventy times in a day.” [Tirmidhi]

Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them) said, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “If anyone constantly seeks pardon (from Allah), Allah will appoint for him a way out of every distress and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide sustenance for him from where he expects not.” [Abu Dawud]

It is a means of getting closer to Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He).

Narrated Anas bin Malik that Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Allah is more pleased with the repentance of His slave than anyone of you is pleased with finding his camel which he had lost in the desert.” [Bukhari]

The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) is reported to have said, “Sometimes I perceive a veil over my heart, and I supplicate Allah for forgiveness a hundred times in a day.” [Muslim]

Glad tidings to those who find a lot of seeking forgiveness in the record of their deeds.” [Sunan ibn Majah]

 

When to Seek Forgiveness

At all times of the day:

“I seek the forgiveness of Allah and repent to Him one hundred times each day.” [Sunan ibn Majah]

In the latter part of the night:

Abu Hurairah narrated that Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Allah, Blessed and Exalted is He, descends to the earth’s heaven every night when the first third of the night has passed. He says: “I am the Sovereign. Is there any who calls upon Me so that I may respond to him? Is there any who asks of Me that I may give him? Is there any who seeks forgiveness from Me so that I may forgive him?’ He continues in that until the illumination of Al-Fajr.” [Tirmidhi]

At any time when one feels sincere regret and a desire to return to the pleasure of Allah (Glorified and Exalted be He):

“There is no man who commits a sin then he performs ablution and does it well, then he prays two Rak’ah,’ (one of the narrators) Mis’ar said: ‘then performs prayer and seeks the forgiveness of Allah, but Allah will forgive him.” [Sunan Ibn Majah]

 

Words for Seeking Forgiveness

“The best manner of asking for forgiveness is to say,

اَللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي, لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ, خَلَقْتَنِي, وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ, وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اِسْتَطَعْتُ, أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ, أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ, وَأَبُوءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِي, فَاغْفِرْ لِي; فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ اَلذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ

‘O Allah! You are my Lord. None has the right to be worshipped except You. You created me and I am your servant and I abide by your covenant and promise as best I can. I seek refuge in you from the evil, which I have committed. I acknowledge your favor upon me and I knowledge my sins, so forgive me, for verily none can forgive sin except you.'” [Bukhari]

Other supplications:

Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) used to supplicate:

اللهم اغفر لي خطيئتي وجهلي، وإسرافي في أمري، وما أنت أعلم به مني، اللهم اغفر لي جدي وهزلي، وخطئي وعمدي، وكل ذلك عندي، اللهم اغفر لي ما قدمت وما أخرت، وما أسررت وما أعلنت، وما أنت أعلم به مني، أنت المقدم، وأنت المؤخر، وأنت على كل شيء قدير

‘Allahumm-aghfir li khati’ati, wajahli, wa israfi fi amri, wa ma Anta a’lamu bihi minni. Allahumm-aghfir li jiddi wa hazli, wa khata’i wa ‘amdi, wa kullu dhalika ‘indi. Allahumm-aghfir li ma qaddamtu wa ma akhkhartu, wa ma asrartu, wa ma a’lantu, wa ma Anta a’lamu bihi minni. Antal-Muqaddimu, wa Antal-Mu’akhkhiru; wa Anta ‘ala kulli shai’in Qadir’

O Allah! Forgive my errors, ignorance and immoderation in my affairs. You are better aware of my faults than myself. O Allah! Forgive my faults which I committed in seriousness or in fun deliberately or inadvertently. O Allah! Grant me pardon for those sins which I committed in the past and I may commit in future, which I committed in privacy or in public and all those sins of which You are better aware than me. You Alone can send whomever You will to Jannah, and You Alone can send whomever You will to Hell-fire and You are Omnipotent.” [Bukhari and Muslim]

 

رَبَّنَآ إِنَّنَآ ءَامَنَّا فَٱغۡفِرۡ لَنَا ذُنُوبَنَا وَقِنَا عَذَابَ ٱلنَّارِ

“Our Lord, indeed we have believed, so forgive us our sins and protect us from the punishment of the Fire.” [Qur’an; 3:16]

اللهم اغفر لي ذنبي كله دقه وجله، وأوله وآخره، وعلانيته وسره

Allahum-maghfir li dhanbi kullahu: diqqahu wa jillahu, wa ‘awwalahu wa akhirahu, wa alaniyatahu wa sirrahu

“O Allah! Forgive all my sins, the small and the great, first and the last, the open and the secret” [Muslim]

 

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ يَا اللَّهُ بِأَنَّكَ الْوَاحِدُ الأَحَدُ الصَّمَدُ الَّذِي لَمْ يَلِدْ وَلَمْ يُولَدْ وَلَمْ يَكُنْ لَهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ أَنْ تَغْفِرَ لِي ذُنُوبِي إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ

Allahumma inni as’aluka ya Allah! Bi-annakal-Wahidul-Ahad us-Samad, alladhi lam yalid wa lam yowled, wa lam yakun lahu kufuwan ahad, an taghfirali dhunubi, innaka antal-Ghafurur-Rahim

“O Allah, I ask of You, O Allah, as You are the One, the Only, the Self-Sufficient Master, Who begets not nor was He begotten, and there is None equal or comparable to Him, forgive me my sins, for You are the Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [Sunan an-Nasa’i]

 

Further Reading

Story of Imam Ahmad Ibn Hanbal and the Baker

Power of Istighfar

Recitation of Surah Mulk